Angry Kya?

What is the reaction of an individual when extremely angry? Verbal abuse, curses, physical abuse to the self or another person, destruction of property etc.

Bad Anger leads to destruction of relationships.

A father verbally cursed his daughter when he was angry because she didn’t behave in a way that pleased him or treat him the way he wanted to be treated — as the king of the castle.

Guess what happened to their relationship?

The father’s curses, betrayal and emotional abuse didn't affect his daughter at all, but she instead detached herself completely from him forever.

Many of us let our tempers run out of control, turning others bitter over time.

So what should you do when you’re angry? Discuss the issue. Communication resolves misunderstandings.

Or take a walk. Step out for a few minutes to cool off. Cry your heart out, rather than physically abusing someone. Crying when angry and hurt is a great way to express yourself.

And always, always mind your tongue.

Make a conscious effort to stop using abusive words and demeaning sentences.

Learn to forgive. No human is perfect. Learn to adjust rather than constantly being angry and dissatisfied with others.

Who Is She????????????

Born in London, England in July 1967, and brought up in South Kingstown, Rhode Island. Brought up in America by a mother who wanted to raise her children to be Indian, she learned about her Bengali heritage from an early age. Received her B.A. in English literature from Barnard College in 1989. She then received multiple degrees from Boston University: an M.A. in English, an M.A. in Creative Writing, an M.A. in Comparative Literature and a Ph.D. in Renaissance Studies. She took up a fellowship at Provincetown's Fine Arts Work Center, which lasted for the next two years (1997-1998).

In 2001, she married Alberto Vourvoulias-Bush, a journalist who was then Deputy Editor of Time Latin America. Lahiri currently lives in Brooklyn with her husband and two children. She has been a Vice President of the PEN American Center since 2005.

Taught creative writing at Boston University and Rhode Island School of Design. Much of her short fiction concerns the lives of Indian-Americans, particularly Bengalis.

Awards Won By Her

• 1993 - TransAtlantic Award from the Henfield Foundation
• 1999 - O. Henry Award for short story "Interpreter of Maladies"
• 1999 - PEN/Hemingway Award (Best Fiction Debut of the Year) for "Interpreter of Maladies"
• 2000 - Addison Metcalf Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters
• 2000 - The New Yorker's Best Debut of the Year for "Interpreter of Maladies"
• short story "Interpreter of Maladies" selected as one of Best American Short Stories
• 2000 - Pulitzer Prize for Fiction for her debut Interpreter of Maladies
• 2000 - M.F.K. Fisher Distinguished Writing Award from the James Beard Foundation
• 2002 - Guggenheim Fellowship

Gave up shen is none other then Jhumpa Lahiri